a conversation
my husband
got a 'new' doctor
his 'old' nephrologist was 'booted' upstairs
when two hospitals merged not long ago
the 'old' doctor
who'd been caring for him for a number of years
told him that he'd like the 'new' doc
and
not to worry he'd still be around if he was needed
this week he saw the 'new' doc
apparently
things aren't running as smoothly as before the merger
his appointment was for 9
he didnt see the doctor till 10:30
he got home around 11:30
he called me
he called me
he said:
this is a kid a kid he's a kid
but
he seems nice
he seems nice
we talked about my meds
about my medical history
you know
i didnt remember
when i had my heart attack
you never had a heart attack
did you tell him you had a heart attack
you had by-pass surgery
(among other things)
did he not read your file
what did i ...
no, i didnt tell him
yes, he read the file
yes, he read the file
did you know it was 2011
i thought it was 4 years ago
he wants to see me again in 2 months
i said
no disrespect
but
your predecessor agreed
i could come in every 6 months
if my bloodwork is okay
we compromised at 31/2 months
there were no appointments in december
i got an appointment for the end of november
what day
what time
what time
i dont remember
call and ask
they'll call to confirm
i want to put it my calendar
they'll call
i will call
its good you're my surrogate
i think i have too much time invested in this man to kill him
(yes, he meant advocate)
(yes, he meant advocate)